90 Day Fiance: All of the Ways Geoffrey Was Abusive to Varya

The most controversial couple on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days showed domestic abuse, with Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Malina. They caught the eye of the public, with how Varya seemed to take advantage of Geoffrey’s good fortune. Geoffrey was emotionally abusive towards her as well as manipulative. It also didn’t help that Geoffrey had a sketchy past, something that the show highlighted. Between the two, he seems the more at fault now that the season has premiered.

Geoffrey was Varya’s love interest on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. He has since moved on with Mary Wallace, a woman who has skeletons in her closet. These include a criminal record. The show filmed Mary and Varya getting into a fight when Varya showed up at Geoffrey’s home to show that she loved him. Geoffrey maintains that the fight was not just staged for the cameras. Even so, he gave a wide smirk to the cameras while it was happening rather than trying to break up the fight; staged or not, he was enjoying that two women were fighting over him.

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Newsweek confirmed that Geoffrey and Vanya had a destructive relationship, and that Geoffrey is perceived as manipulative. In addition, Geoffrey’s ex-wife has accused him of raping her and committing physical abuse. Varya noted some red flags, namely that he asked her to stay the night despite it being their first meeting and her not being comfortable about it. He apparently kept at the question, ignoring her soft “no” the first time that she said it. If your partner doesn’t listen to your wants and needs, then it may be a sign to get out of there before things get too serious.

Another first red flag is that neither person felt they could trust each other. Geoffrey had a lot of anxiety telling Varya that he was a former drug addict with a criminal record. That is realistic, if not completely honest. What wasn’t fine was that he and Varya didn’t have open communication weeks after his proposal. It turns out that he and Mary went on a date three months after Varya told him that she needed time to think about it. Varya texted him every day, and he ghosted her in response, lacking the decency to tell her about Mary. This led to the big fight between women.

When later confronted about the ghosting, he lied about not responding to her texts. His story contradicts Varya’s account, which could be easily proven. That’s gaslighting, trying to deny what you do to make your victim look bad, and it’s not nice. If someone is gaslighting you, then run! Do what you can to leave.

Varya can do so much better, and she owes it to herself. Geoffrey did her a favor by revealing his true colors, and we hope that she can find true love. Domestic abuse is not new on television; it will remain a problem as long as it’s out of the public eye. The best way to avoid manipulators is to look for these signs, and trust your instincts. Varya trusted hers and dodged a major bullet.

Here is a link to the National Domestic Violence Hotline if you or someone you know needs help.

Source: Newsweek

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