90 Day Fiancé: Why Fans Think Libby & Her Siblings Were Poorly Raised

90 Day Fiancé fans are questioning the upbringing of Elizabeth Potthast and her siblings as they believe they were raised poorly. Other than being a part of her dysfunctional family, Libby is also one-half of one of the most controversial 90 Day Fiancé couples. Her family even pushes this narrative with their antics and ongoing feuds. The family has yet to find common ground, and fans are beginning to think Libby’s upbringing is to blame.


Libby was first featured on 90 Day Fiancé in 2017 after she met her now-husband Andrei Castravet on Tinder and later applied for his K-1 visa. The family had their reservations about Andrei and the siblings have always made it clear that they did not like him. However, Libby’s dad, Chuck Potthast, has been quite supportive of their relationship and even included Andrei in the family’s house flipping business, much to the annoyance of Libby’s siblings.

90DF‘s Potthast family has been called unlikeable due to their endless drama, and fans are beginning to suspect they cause so much drama because they were spoiled growing up. Fans on Reddit all agree that the family has a lot of character issues. There is always someone painted as the main villain for every fight, and they all react to it poorly. In the Reddit thread started by u/Ok-Jelly-5767, fans stated that they felt the siblings didn’t have any parental guidance growing up. One fan wrote, “Chuck created those monsters. He seems nice but also seems to not have any balls.” Several fans agreed with this comment, with one person calling the 90 Day Fiancé side character “spineless.” It also explains why the siblings are so entitled; the Potthast siblings expressed their displeasure over 90DF‘s Andrei, who has taken many outdoor photos, trying to work for Chuck, despite them doing the same.

Another Reddit user placed some blame on the Potthast matriarch, Pamela Putnam. Although she divorced Chuck and got remarried, 90 Day Fiancé fans felt she played a huge role in how her kids were raised. They do not seem to show Pamela much respect, which is evident from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?. Other fans on Reddit questioned,”Perhaps it’s their toxic mom that walked out on her family unit that caused this?” with another responding, “it can be both.” Pamela doesn’t seem to get the respect she deserves for being their mom, and everyone makes her fair game to be talked down to. Even Andrei, whose hasn’t changed since 90DF season 6, her son-in-law, yelled at her and got away with it.

Some 90 Day Fiancé fans claim that all this drama could be an act for them to get their own reality show. However, fans don’t think they have what it takes to carry a show, as they are tired of the drama and constant family feuds. Although the Potthast family seems to be a staple on Happily Ever After?, fans are over their family antics.

Source: u/Ok-Jelly-5767/ Reddit

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